27 April 2014

Twins’ Baby Dedication

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Rory Mark and Patrick Jefferson were dedicated at our Spring Baptist Church. Baby dedication is such a precious time in which a child’s parents and family/friends vow to raise the child (or in our case children) in a Christian home and teach the values of our faith and God’s love. We are so proud of our boys (all three!) and were so happy and excited for the opportunity to dedicate Rory and Patrick at our church this weekend. Spring Baptist does such a beautiful job of making dedication services special. There is a reception for family and encouragers prior to the service where each family gets a table with a cake, snacks and some beautiful take aways including a decorative frame with the child’s bible verse chosen by the parents. I am so in love with the verses we chose for our boys!

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For Rory…..a very passionate verse for an already passionate little boy. We so so much personality in him and know he will have the power to be such a positive influence on others if lead in a positive and loving Christian home.

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For Patrick…..I call him my brave, strong boy. He has been through so much so early. After every shot I gave him during his 6+ weeks on Lovenox, I would tell him “Your so brave”. That little face never lost its light and so we chose a verse that focuses on the strength.

My mother in law knows how much I love to dress my three boys up in precious little outfits for these occasions so she presented us with a couple of months ago as we were planning the boys’ dedication. The outfits are amazing and I had so much fun getting photos of the boys before we left for church.

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Rory looking quite dapper in his Sunday best.

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I love that cute little smile peaking out.

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Oh so handsome.

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Mama and her “Baby A”

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Elijah looked adorable in his green and white romper!

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Beautiful boy!

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Mama and her “Baby B”

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Patrick enjoying a brief nap.

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We have such happy kids.

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Another beautiful Parish baby.

One of the neat hings our church does is asks the parents to name encouragers for their children. These are people that will pray for your child on a regular basis and vow to, well, encourage them in all they do. We are so blessed to have such a big group of family and friends who already are such an important (and spiritual) part of our boys’ lives and we were happy to ask them to do us the honor of being encourages.

Patrick and Rory’s encouragers are:

Janet & Latheal Parish – Grandparents

Janet Shook – Great Grandmother

Robin Estep – A friend of our family and a great mentor to me

Shannon Stellhorn – One of my midwives and dearest friends

Daniel Baker –  Close friend of Chips and our family

Elizabeth Sutherland – Lifelong friend to me

Katie McCorkle – Dear friend of our family

Trish and Rick Warner – Lifelong friends to Chip’s parents and friends and mentors for our family

We were blessed to have most of the encouragers able to be there for the event. We misses Elizabeth Sutherland…who lives in Chicago and Shannon Stellhorn who has the busy life of a midwife and was called away by duty but we know they were with us in heart!

The rest of us enjoyed the hour long reception prior to the service and all the yummy food and punch! Elijah had so much fun interacting with all of our friend and family and enjoyed the open space of the gym where the reception was held. At the conclusion of the reception, each family was asked to pray over they children being dedicated. Chip lead our family in a beautiful prayer focusing on our hopes for our boys that they claim their salvation at an early age and their lives are full of knowledge of Christ’s love for them, that they use their talents to glorify Him and then we prayed these things also for their future spouse, which we have done since they were conceived. I am blessed with such an amazing mother in law and I am looking forward to playing that part myself one day and I think about the mates to my children that I will one day welcome to our family. Such a fun thing to pray for.

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Rory’s cake and page from the program. Chip smiled when he saw the photo and said I picked very biblical looking pictures of our boys. Okay, what he really said was that they looked like baby Jesus. That made me smile.

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Patrick’s cake and photo. His photo is more angelic I think.

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Danny and Mallory have been so good to our boys….including Wrigley!

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We are so grateful to Katie for her beautiful caring heart. She is always interested in our children and even brags about our boys!

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We are grateful Granny could be here to share in our joy.

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I get so overwhelmed when I think about how much I wanted THIS those first twelve days without our Patrick. Our arms and hearts are now so full.

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Patrick loved the attention from Trish. She had him smiling and laughing all evening.

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Granny enjoyed getting to spoil Elijah

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Big fun for Elijah was running around on the stage.

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Rory has eyes for Grandmother

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Love my friend

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Just some Parish guys hanging out.

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Apparently Elijah and Mallory wore eachother out

After the reception and a photo op, we all went to the sanctuary for the service. The parents and babies waited in the lobby and were presented one at a time. It was just so awesome to see all these amazing little faces in their Sunday best beginning their journey that will (hopefully) one day lead them to accepting Christ. It is quite surreal. I am happy to report that all three boys behaved so well and we were able to fully focus on the meaning of the service. Prior to the baby dedication portion of the service, there were two (full submersion) baptisms. Elijah, being in the sanctuary with the rest of the congregation, witnessed these two people getting dunked and after each one yelled out “Oh no!”. He was very concerned. That was our comic relief for the evening, That and him yelling out HI RORY to his little brother when we were standing at the front of the church. That’s my boy!

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Enjoying some Grandmother time.

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Pastor Mark with the newest and littlest Parishes

 

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Pastor Mark with the newest and littlest Parishes

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26 April 2014

Elijah's Second Birthday - Montage of Two Years

I wanted to share the video montage I made for Elijah's birthday this year. It is MUCH shorter than the 47 minute long one I did last year. Heehee. That one was composed throughout the year, this one was much more of a summery but from the heart nonetheless.  

Elijah’s Second Birthday

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My baby is TWO! Elijah will tell you he’s “two olds” and I feel the same way. He is TOO old! Heehee. I love watching him grow and mature but every day I look at him, I know in my heart that he will never be this little again. So on his birthday we celebrate not only his birth, growth and development but his “littleness” as well. He is an amazing sweet little boy with the most golden heart I have ever known.

In two year old Elijah, I see such love for others. He is affectionate and I see a conscience beginning to develop. We have started using time outs as our chosen form of discipline and although he is not a fan (of course) he understands now when he is doing something wrong. There have been times when he touches something he knows he is not supposed to touch and he will look at me and say “No time out”. So hard to not crack a smile at that but I keep my cool and tell him to go to his little time out alcove which he does begrudgingly and sits until he hears the timer on my phone…right now just one long minute.  I am doing my best to model my parenting after the Love and Logic school of thought and that seems to work for Elijah.  Elijah is also showing signs that we are in a window of opportunity for potty training. He tells me when he goes poopy (usually after it happens) but his awareness makes me think we might be able to tackle this task and so this Wednesday, I decided to mark on our calendar as the day we begin potty training! We will at least give it a shot and see if he really is ready. I am excited to undertake this, but also kind of intimidated. We will see how it goes.

Elijah is developing at record speeds in his learning and can count to 10 consistently and also knows a lot of his ABC’s. He knows all the basic colors and is able to identify some letters and numbers by sight. He has developed a taste for Wheel of Fortune thanks to some visits with Granny and Grandmother and Grandaddy and it actually seems to have helped with this skill so we will occasionally let him watch it at home. He is an AMAZING big brother and loves to shower his little brothers with hugs and kisses…to the point that the only time I can do tummy time with the twins is when Elijah naps because he wants to be down there with them hugging them and I really don’t want to kill his joy (so easy to do with little ones) by telling him not to hug them so we try to do most of the productive tummy time when Elijah  is sleeping.

We are just so beside ourselves in love with this sweet little boy and excited to celebrate his little life! One of his loves right now is Sesame Street, especially Elmo so we decided to throw Elijah a Sesame Street birthday party. We started talking about birthdays last month around my Dad’s birthday and Elijah became obsessed with “Pop Bir-day!”. The way he says birthday sounds British, like a  cockney accent. So cute. The obession with “Pop Bir-day” never went away and whenever we talked about “Eli-ya Bir-day” he would mention Pop’s as well.

Well our “Elmo Bir-day” was a huge success! I found some neat ideas for food design on Pinterest and had fun getting decorations together.  Elijah was surrounded by family and friends and I know he felt so special which was the whole purpose behind this special celebration.

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I got a shot of our Wrigley before he went next door to visit during the party. Wrigley is great with kids but some of our smaller guests are a little scared of his “bigness”.

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Oscar The Grouch veggie tray

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Elmo Strawberry Platter (one of Elijah’s faves!”

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Big Bird Pineapple

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I found an awesome back drop for photo ops! Photobooth style!

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At one point, Granny was holding Patrick and Elijah decided that she should pick him up as well.

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Patrick looking cute and concerned in his Burt birthday hat

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Rory played the part of Ernie so well

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The Parish family redheads

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“Doin the pigeon”

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My jolly little Ernie

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Loves his Grandaddy

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Rory catching a quick snack while I visit with our good friend, Katie.

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We had a party full of baby whisperers. Danny got so many smiles out of Rory.

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On our menu were all things Elijah loves. Here he is enjoying strawberries, veggie chips and popcorn.

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Patrick thought Granny was so funny!

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Elijah enjoyed watching his birthday montage video.

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My little Elijah, I love you from here to the sun! (cause is further than the moon!)

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Papa John came all the way from New Jersey for this special birthday!

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We were so excited to have Rah Rah join us….but we knew she wouldn’t miss it. Smile

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My old and dear friend Amber was awesome getting Rory to sleep!

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One of Elijah’s new favorite characters is Abby!

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My sweet boys hanging out with the gang from Sesame Street

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Our friend Halle had fun posing too!

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The birthday boy!

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Mama and Rory <3

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My outdoor boy enjoying the beautiful birthday weather!

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Slam dunk with Daddy

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“This way Grandmother”

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Playing ball with his Daddy

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Modeling after Daddy

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High five! Okay maybe low five.

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The tower of homemade cupcakes.

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My boy loved his serenade.

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Happy Birthday to you!

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Cupcake time!

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That’s definitely my child…going after the icing first.

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Kisses for the birthday boy.

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Cupcakes with friends are the best!

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Avery did such a great job with Patrick….future babysitter????

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Love Mallory. So great to our kids.

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Enjoying is Elijah sized four wheeler.

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Auntie Heather stepped from behind the camera to get some baby time.

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Our strong Patrick is just over nine and a half pounds and stands supported!

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Happy Birthday sweet Elijah. I cannot wait to see what wonders your third year brings.